Happy at Last

Shawn at work in ihis room at the vets house

He's Been Through Every Type of Suffering a Human Being Can Go Through - and He's Still Here

Shawn in his room in the Vets House
Shawn takes time time out for a photo

“I’ve been through about every type of suffering a human being can go through, and I’m still here. And I’m still positive.  If that isn’t God, I don’t know what is,” said Shawn, a former Army Combat Engineer and current resident at the Crabtree Kovacicek Veterans House.  Since coming to City Mission, Shawn has transformed his life.  “I’m getting my mind, body, and soul back,” he said.  “This place is definitely a God-send.  It’s so peaceful here.  For the longest time I didn’t even consider myself a veteran.  Now, I’m proud to be a vet.  That’s one of the biggest things I’ve learned here.”Shawn is now studying for a Criminal Justice degree and enjoying life.

Shawn’s mother passed away when he was 8, and his later childhood was marked by punches to the face and kicks to the stomach that passed as “discipline.”  Later in life, he suffered multiple sexual abuses and turned to drugs to numb the pain.  Eventually, this led him to full-blown addiction.  He overdosed three times and had to be revived, including once when his son found him on the bathroom floor.   He spent 12 years in prison.  At one point, he even tried to kill himself.

“But God said, ‘Nope.  Not yet.  I’m not done with you,’” he explained.  “I’m actually happy right now,” he said.  “And I’ll tell any vet, there is hope!  This place gives it to you for real!”

“But God said, ‘Nope.  Not yet.  I’m not done with you,’” he explained.  “I’m actually happy right now,” he said.  “And I’ll tell any vet, there is hope!  This place gives it to you for real!”

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December 12, 2019
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