Knowledge is Power

City Mission staff Brianna Kadlecik and GED Students

City Mission Residents Pursue GED

“You can’t do anything without a GED or a diploma,” said Mandy, a current City Mission resident who is studying for her General Educational Development(GED) exams at the Mission’s Career Training and Education Center.  “There were jobs I really wanted. They’d tell me, ‘Get your GED and call us back.’”

According to Kaplan Test Prep, “People with a high school equivalency diploma earn an average of $9,000 more per year than people without an equivalency diploma.”

Mandy dropped out of high school nearly two decades ago.  She started working toward her GED multiple times since then but was never able to stick with it until coming to City Mission in December.  She has been studying four days a week, three hours a day for the past six months and has been able to pass three of the four tests required to earn her diploma.  She plans to take the math exam in mid or late August.  

“When I passed that first test, I couldn’t believe I made it that far,”she added.  ““Everybody here at the Mission was just as excited about it as I was. The staff here in this place encourage you every step of the way – even when you mess up.  They tell me I can be more, and I’m starting to finally feel that way about myself now too.  I have a great feeling in my heart right now.”

Miguel grew up in San Juan, Puerto Rico. “In my household, we didn’t have a lot of money,” he said.  “And there was a lot of drugs and violence.”  When Miguel, who was raised by his grandparents, turned 12, his grandma got sick, and his family moved to the United States in search of better healthcare.  For Miguel, it was exciting at first, but unfortunately, his family moved into a worse situation, with even more drugs and violence.

“I lived in a drug-infested neighborhood in North Philadelphia,” he explained.  It wasn’t long before he started hanging out with the wrong people in the wrong places.  He became addicted to drugs.  He dropped out of high school and ended up living on the streets of Philadelphia. “I didn’t even know the language back then,” he said.  Eventually, he learned English by reading the Bible, but it has been a lifelong process.  

Miguel came to City Mission six months ago, and he has been working on his GED since April.  He loves learning about history, specifically ancient civilizations, because he believes it gives you an understanding of how societies were formed and why things are the way they are.

In the future, he hopes to study drug and alcohol counseling or further his trade, studying painting or welding.  “I don’t want to just survive,” he explained.  “I want to live.  I want to open the doors to a job that I love.”

City Mission’s Career Training and Education Coordinator, Brianna Kadlecik, and volunteer instructor, Dee Dee Zinn, have been working alongside the residents as they pursue their GED, and it has been very rewarding for them to watch the residents learn and grow as people.  “It really builds their confidence,” Kadlecik explained.  “When everyone is cheering them on, they start to see that they can really do it.”  

Kadlecik has had the opportunity to work 1-on-1 with Mandy and Miguel and other residents pursuing their GED. “It’s been a blast getting to do GED tutoring with them during the recent lockdown,” she said.  “The best part is all the 1-on-1 time.  The lockdown stopped everything else for me, and I’ve really been able to focus on training and education.”

In the process, she has learned a lot about the GED exams and the challenges involved with studying for them. There is a cost associated with the GED, and taking preparatory classes can also be expensive and time-consuming. The exams themselves are not easy and require significant time and commitment to prepare.      

“It’s not enough just to do it by themselves.  You really do need someone working alongside you,” explained Kadlecik.  “You have to learn to work independently but you also have to ask for help when you need it.  It takes hours and hours and months and months.”

The discipline, dedication, humility to ask for help, and the goal-driven focus it takes to successfully pursue your GED are all invaluable skills for achieving recovery and independence.  And the self-confidence that grows and blossoms throughout the process helps residents build a brighter future.

“My kids are proud of me,” said Mandy, whose three children live with her mom and step dad in York County.  “That’s the biggest thing for me.  My oldest son,he can tell how far I’ve come.”

A few years ago, Mandy was introduced to heroin.  Within a year, she lost her home and sold her car to get high.  Eventually, she relinquished custody of her children to her mom and started living in a car in the woods.  Last year, she overdosed and came to on the floor, looking up at a woman who told her if she hadn’t come to,she was about to drag her out to the woods to die.

“That terrified me,” Mandy said. “I started bawling.  All that flashed before me was my kids.  I kept thinking that that’s all I would have left them. Overdosed on drugs and left in the woods to die when I should have been fighting for them.”

“After a lifetime of being told I would never amount to anything and feeling like I could never do what other people did,” she added, “as I get further into this program, I just keep getting more excited!  I’m finally starting to think more about what I can do instead of what I can’t do.”

Your generous donations are helping Mandy and Miguel overcome barriers to their education.  You are changing lives.  And you can continue helping them and other City Mission residents along their journey to independence and life-transformation by donating at www.citymission.org.  

July 24, 2020
Gary Porter - Communications Manager
Gary Porter
Communications Manager
Gary has been with the mission since 2017. He writes many of our resident stories, getting to know many of them and seeing their transformations at the mission from the start.
gporter@citymission.org

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