Walking with the King

nettie in her office at her job at City Mission

Healing Herself and Giving Blessings to Others

Nettie’s addiction started at a young age.  “I grew up with structure. But after Mom died, that structure went away.  Dad was working in the steel mill and there was no one to watch the kids.  That’s when I started getting into trouble,” she explained.  “I got involved in drinking at 12 years old, stealing from the liquor cabinet at home,” she said.  “It progressed very quickly into heavier drugs.”  

On November 3, 2000, Nettie was walking across the Beaver Falls New Brighton Bridge when Psalm 103:12 popped into her mind:  “As far as the east is from the west, that’s how far He has removed our transgressions from us.”  Nettie turned her life over completely to God.  “It was absolutely horrifying! But I knew there was a better way. I knew God loved me.  

"I went to rehab the very next day,” she said.  “When it was really bad for me, God’s Word pulled me back.  His Word can bring anyone back.”  After completing her time at the treatment center, she came to live at City Mission.  Here she was able to turn her life around, regain custody of her six children and restore what she had lost to addiction.  

Today, 18 years later, Nettie is the House Coordinator of the Women’s  Program at City Mission and still believes in the power of Scripture to change lives.  “We learn one Scripture a day,” she explained.  “I get to sit and listen to the ladies read Scriptures they picked out for themselves.  Those are life-changing words.”

“I know what it’s like for the women who come here,” she continued.  “They’re looking for people to relate to.  They want to open up, but addiction or abuse has beaten them down so far they don’t think there’s a way out. But when they see someone who’s been where they’ve been, it has a profound affect on them. I just pray and hope lives get saved.”

Even in her recovery, the opioid crisis continues to create tragedy in Nettie’s life.  She lost her youngest son to an overdose in 2007.  Today, her daughter is still struggling with addiction, leaving Nettie to raise five grandchildren, ranging from 11 months to 15 years old.  “My grandchildren  have been through a lot too,” she said.  “I teach them to pray.  I teach them they can be anybody they want to be with God.  I teach them to love others, to be leaders and not followers.”

“I’m blessed to be able to be a blessing to others,” she said.  “You just have to continue to plant the seed. If you continue to plant the seed, you never know who you’re going to help.  Like I always say, ‘Walk with the King and be a blessing.'"

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